First and foremost, there are no winners (except for the lawyers representing all parties) in this domestic violence fiasco playing itself out in full view for all to see. From a father’s perspective, no amount of apologizing is going to erase the visual images of seeing your child physically beat down by someone that supposedly cares about them. Once Rhianna heals from the physical trauma, she will be required to endure the emotional beat down she will continue to receive from the public and arguably her conscience for trying to salvage the so-called relationship.
Anybody in a relationship knows that quality partnerships often require a lot of work. The dynamics of many elements of this debacle are intriguing.Chris Brown supposedly grew up in a domestically violent household where he witnessed his mother being abused. I am certain he feels pretty low about the parallels that can and will be drawn between his mother’s abuser and himself. Beyond all of the endorsement deals and record sales, think about how his earning power was diminished at his own hands. Would you take your young daughter to see him if he were performing at your local arena next week?
By most accounts, it’s easy to understand that Rihanna was the victim in this situation. The fact of the matter is that none of us was there and few people really know the intricacies of their relationship. There are innumerable reasons why Rihanna and other victims of domestic violence go back. Only by asking each of them would we ever really know. Even with knowing, there is no guarantee that we would understand. In this case it must be love. She has fortune and fame. Love will make you do irrational things. So will a lack of love for self.
Earlier the question was presented about taking your daughter to see a Chris Brown concert. After hearing reports of the couples reunion at Diddy’s home in Florida, would you go to a Rihanna concert? Life’s not always fair. If the two work things out, how will the reconciliation impact her future earning? As stated in the preface, there are no winners here. There are a lot of lessons to be learned from all of this. In life, it is guaranteed that you will take some losses. These losses have a dual purpose. On one had they are extremely bitter pills to swallow. On the other hand, these losses are like sweeteners, they make the wins and successes even better when you juxtapose the two.
I hope everything works out favorably for Ms. Fenty and Mr. Brown. It is almost impossible to live a private life when you grow to be such public figures. The camera is always on. Inside or outside the spotlight, mistakes happen, learn from them, try not to repeat them, progress and grow.
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i don’t like anything about Rhianna she so ugly bitch she bad girl, about Chris brown is great hot sexy man i love everything about Chris brown is cool guy